Are you glossophobic?
Did you know that public speaking ranks second only to snakes in the top ten of things that people fear? Even Margaret Thatcher, known as the Iron Lady, said “I am nervous every time I get up up to make a major speech – I am nervous every time I enter the House of Commons”. Like most fears though, this is emotional, not rational. Let’s look at some of the misconceptions held about speaking in public.
Other people don’t get nervous – In reality most people do get nervous. Even those that enjoy speaking to an audience get nervous – this can enhance their performance. Mark Twain said “There are two types of speaker: those that are nervous and those that are liars.
I’ll start to speak when I conquer my nerves – Time does not cure anxiety, it just allows you to avoid it. Only action cures anxiety.
Watching others will help me – You may pick up a few ideas but has watching hours of test matches made you an All Black? If you want to improve then YOU need to practise.
Preparation is the key to reducing stress and speaking successfully. Go on a course and get prepared!
I will be running a course in Auckland on 19th November that will equip you with the strategies you need to overcome your fears and enable you to present professionally and fluently. Can you afford to miss this? Email me at john@johnshack.com for more details.
Remember the words of Sydney Smith – “A great deal of talent is lost to the world for want of a little courage” – and come along to ensure the world gets to hear your message soon.